Rules my Grandma's Psychiatrist gave her in 56'
Get some cheap dishes and break them when you get upset. Learn how to say “NO” and don’t feel guilty about it Buy something frivolous for yourself once in awhile, like a new hat. Never again do anything you don’t want to do.
One lesson I wish I could go back in time and tell... →
crankyskirt: One lesson I wish I could go back in time and tell five-year-old me: Don’t idolize anyone. Not your family, not your teachers, not politicians, not celebrities, nobody. It’s a losing game. Anyone you want to love genuinely, you’ll have to see as a whole person: the pleasant parts, the fucked-up bits, the large swaths of Not That Interesting To You. Hero worship will block your...
If guys were as mad about rape as they are duck face we wouldn’t have a rape...– Jamie Kilstein (via stuzie) Other things most straight white guys get way more upset about than they do about rape: Taylor Swift the song “Call Me Maybe” girls who date “douchebags” basically any music that isn’t played by white dudes with guitars girls who are “shallow” or “fake” girls who...
fartgallery: I SPENT 6 HOURS MAKING THIS BALLOON PIT AND IT DOESNT EVEN WORK
This is pretty basic stuff: teaching teenagers that girls shouldn’t wear...– Katie J.M. Baker, “Let’s Reinvent the ‘Don’t Be a Slut’ School Dress Code”
The sexualization of women is only appealing if it’s nonconsensual. Otherwise...– Lindy West, “Female ‘Purity’ Is Bullshit” (via didyoueatallthisacid)
here’s the thing about sex, sexualization, rape... →
ihaveabsolutelynoidea: here’s the thing about sex, sexualization, rape culture and the phrase “sex sells” sex does not sell. at all. the objectification of women’s bodies is not sex. focusing on breasts or gentials or ass in order to sell a product or an idea is not the same thing as sex. it’s a process that turns people into objects, without agency, and therefore, not human. this is rape...
unfollower: no see lesbians are not more accepted than gay men they’re more sexualized please do not get those 2 things confused
(◡‿◡✿) holding hands (◡‿◡✿)
Pug gets scolded by owner and takes it to heart
Addiction is tricky. For example: a man who quit smoking for 11 years spent 15...– (via idiotshitbaby)
Anonymous asked: Don't be so quick to judge people.
lostgirl49: deep life talks in a McDonald’s at 11 at night
: i have important things to doand they don’t... →
lostgirl49: i have important things to do and they don’t include graphing rational expressions, reading books i don’t like, worrying about the way my stomach looks from the side, stressing about the calories in that burger or the wording of that last text i sent to the guy who i let kiss me (a dumb choice but im dealing) these next four years the only damn thing i care about is being happy and...
things “body positivity” movements should address... →
sad-queer: things “body positivity” movements should address besides weight/fat: (dis)ability features associated with non-whiteness hair type lots of body hair / no body hair / little body hair / hair in all places / losing hair acne skin conditions scars stretch marks skin discolorations different ways that skin tans tanlines etc so when white feminists show me pictures of fat...
miguu: you broke the ocean in half to be here only to meet nothing that wants you.
me: it's he.
person: *condescending smile* well, on your birth certificate--
me: yeah, it also says ' 8lbs, 6 oz ' -- a lot has changed over the years
milktree: you can pretend like i dont exist but i still made you whimper like a little bitch when you were about to cum this is my favorite post on this website
What are you afraid of? You are so beautiful, so cute, so lucky to be alive....– “things people have said without thinking i’d remember,” Shinji Moon (via commovente)
chekhov: In health class we were given sheets of paper and told to write a message we would want someone of the opposite sex to know She read some examples The girls were like: “Hey can you please not treat me like shit” The boys were like: “Spray tans look ugly I hate when girls wear too much makeup and don’t lead me on.”